Award winning author of The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients, Stefani describes herself as an expert on the edges and a bridge builder between the margins and the mainstream.

​An expert in working with Gender, Relationship, and Sexuality Differences, as well as with those from minority religious traditions, Stefani has served as an expert voice for Cosmopolitan, The New Yorker,  The New York Post, Shape, Women's Health, Marie Claire, The American Spectator, and many more. ​