Coming October 10, 2023
A practical, affirming guide to exploring desire differences between partners who identify as either vanilla or kinky in sexual preferences
More than 80 percent of adult couples in the US report a desire discrepancy between partners—a misalignment not only in frequency of sex but also in what turns them on. Many people harbor fantasies that they feel uncomfortable sharing. With Sprinkles on Top offers a positive and empowering guide to talking about and working through sexual differences—particularly between kinky and non-kinky, or vanilla, partners.
Winner of the 2021 AASECT Book Award!
Winner of the SSTAR Professional Book Award 2021!
Winner of the SASH Media Award 2022!
The Leather Couch provides a comprehensive overview of the BDSM and kink community and guides clinicians on how to meet the unique relational and mental health needs of its members.
Kink-Affirming Practice is an essential guide on how clinicians can ethically and effectively integrate elements of their client’s BSDM identities and practices into their treatment planning, creative interventions, and client self-care.
Stefani Goerlich is a Certified Sex Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, and Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She specializes in working with and writing about gender, sexuality, and relationship differences.